Who the hell is he?

Since the Royal Wedding, I've been hearing and reading a lot about the "ideal man." Some dreams of having their own Prince Charming and Cinderella story. That's not bad, actually. And so there are these TV shows/series that has its own love story. *ting ting ting* Gossip Girl. A new potential pair was introduced to the viewers, and that is the Dan and Blair team-up. No doubt, Dan really fits the concept of "ideal man", of course Chuck and Nate, too. But not as much as Daniel Humphrey.

Every girl already knows what their ideal man should be like. We have our own inspirational stories as basis for it. Some dreams of their own Landon Carter, Julian Baker, Noah Calhoun and a lot more. Movies and TV shows gave us too much expectation from men, well at least for me. But I don't see it as a bad thing. I still believe in guys who are like those in the movies. Hah, so much for being a sucker for flicks.

My ideal man takes a human form in Nathan Scott. Or fictional form, lol. At first I want us to be two utterly different people, and as time goes by, it also permits us to know more about each other real well. It's like growing together while developing feelings for each other. Nathan and Haley have been helping themselves and each other to grow, up and together. Nathan was a douche at first, but you can see him changing very gradual when he was with Haley. Seeing through the past 8 seasons of One Tree Hill, his character had matured, I could tell. I can still remember what Coach Durham told Nathan, this isn't verbatim, but it goes something like this: Maybe you're not taking a step forward as a basketball player, but you're taking two steps forward as a man.

I want my ideal man to be a MAN, not a GUY. Those are two entirely different things.

In case you don't know him, here's a picture of Nathan(James Lafferty):

I'm still searching and praying for my own Nathan Scott. Who's yours? :)